Are you still reeling under the breakup of your relationship and are dying to impress your ex-girlfriend enough to get her back? Here are a few tactics that will help you get your girl back without making it look as if you are begging or groveling.
Analyze your character traits and change If your girlfriend walked out on you because she was highly disgusted with certain aspects of your relationship, then maybe it is time for you to identify these aspects in an honest manner, acknowledge your mistakes and make necessary changes in your habits and behavior.
Mourning will not help – Every girl or guy, after the breakup, will expect their ex to be wild, hysterical, disillusioned and depressed. One of the best ways of getting your ex girlfriend to notice you is not to mourn but get along with your life with a calm demeanor and with great confidence.
Spruce up your appearance – You can be sure your ex girlfriend will go to great lengths to see how you behave after she has dumped you. This innate curiosity is an essential character trait of every woman. Spruce up your appearance, get a new hair style and revamp your wardrobe. Your ex-girl will certainly not expect this and she will sit up impressed with your new look and will certainly try to get in touch with you.
Forgive and Forget – If you are eager to get your ex girlfriend back, learn to be magnanimous and show her that you do not harbor any ill feelings and have gotten over any resentment and ill feelings towards her. This will certainly impress her and she will admire you for your magnanimity.
Focus on your life – Use this temporary break from your girlfriend to focus on other vital aspects of your life such as hobbies, sports, activities, education or career. Moving on positively in your life is one of the best ways of impressing your ex girlfriend.
Prove your worth – You must prove your worth to your ex girlfriend by refusing to beg, mourn or grovel and get along with your life with great confidence. By doing just the opposite of what she expects you to do, you can greatly impress her making her feel desperate to come back to you.
Be emotionally independent – To show your ex girlfriend that you are emotionally and financially independent of her is sure to impress her and make her come running back to you. Rise from the ashes like a phoenix and prove through your behavior and actions that you are independent and are on your way ahead in life, with or without her.